We want our union celebration to reflect our lives, values, and the people we are in relationship with (that’s you!). We are planning to have food and celebrations be put together with each other in a participatory way that moves away from the performative elements that traditional modern weddings can have.

That being said, we would appreciate your help in these realms! We welcome help in the form of food, preparations, flowers and decorations, and anything else you might think of that you can joyously contribute. 

If you are wanting to contribute gifts toward our marriage and our lives, we will gratefully and humbly accept that as well! We have gathered a small list of things that would improve our lives, as well as provided some specific areas that you could contribute to financially if that feels exciting. We are in no way limiting you if you feel called to get creative and surprise us with something else entirely. 

Give only as you feel inspired, and know that your presence at our wedding and in our lives is so much more than enough, and is in itself the ultimate gift of love!